tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38070440183610488872024-03-12T18:12:53.053-07:00Eventing at MidnightEventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.comBlogger177125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-52409437827523095612024-01-26T08:27:00.000-08:002024-01-26T08:27:57.085-08:00When You Take the Crazy Leap<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidQitZa3Y21d4mGnvbGZMfPz2gdPMx7F-C5sFCc5O6EOMWwM_UQ49t0j3CizDj9S-OGVA0WawT9ba97vrlSUTuJRNoXzXeJK7lqWYCfonf-LRuSSq-vNOMBXDcGz1JiTQDGvFKYo3Ad_JvI4AzEDcwqkhq2cXiPXbRj_Xu1apPvFXaV52c58VP4Fbxme20/s1712/IMG_8475.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1712" data-original-width="1284" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidQitZa3Y21d4mGnvbGZMfPz2gdPMx7F-C5sFCc5O6EOMWwM_UQ49t0j3CizDj9S-OGVA0WawT9ba97vrlSUTuJRNoXzXeJK7lqWYCfonf-LRuSSq-vNOMBXDcGz1JiTQDGvFKYo3Ad_JvI4AzEDcwqkhq2cXiPXbRj_Xu1apPvFXaV52c58VP4Fbxme20/w284-h320/IMG_8475.JPG" width="284" /></a></div><br /><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><br /><p></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>Sometimes taking the crazy leap doesn't end like you expect it to. Your daughter who is hell on wheels for every other sport is very timid when it comes to riding. So the sensitive pony you bought doesn't end up being the right fit and now you have to start marketing her for sale. The pony not the child. </p><p>Yet there are other jumps that end up taking you places you didn't envision and they feel like you were always meant to take that path. Years ago when my heart was hurting over my mare who had been diagnosed with cancer, I had a knee jerk reaction and brought home an OTTB who seemed perfect and for awhile he was. I really did love Fox but ultimately he was not the right fit for me so I sent him off to new adventures. </p><p>Then came my giant golden retriever of a mare who absolutely identifies as a gelding. She's big and goofy and I love her more than I thought I'd ever love another horse after my heart horse (a tiny red AQHA mare) left my life. I loved Seneca dearly but she was not my heart horse. I grieved for her but when she left me it didn't tear me apart like losing Lady did. I'm hoping the growing love I have for Roo will at least equal how I felt for Lady. I hope that we learn to trust each other at the heart deep level that Lady and I did. </p><p>Roo, or searching for a Welsh Section D Cob sent me to Lisa Schultz Brezzina, a fantastic breeder who breeds Section D's and Section D Warmblood crosses under the Castleberry prefix in Indiana. If you are looking for a well bred, athletic, smart, ridable horse, she is your person. She sold me Roo and now she is selling me Roo's mom, Reminisce. </p><p>When I knew my daughter's pony wasn't going to be a match and my daughter was going to need several more years of riding saintly lesson horses before she gained the confidence she would need for her own horse I went about looking for a horse that I could play with until Roo is old enough to be ridden consistently. That's another year away at least. The problem was I had champagne tastes and a beer budget. I really wanted something that was already going or at least W/T/C. Honestly I wanted a fancy Warmblood hunter but there was no way I was going to afford that. Have you seen the horse market these days? It's insane! So I started looking at OTTB's and Appendix AQHA's, even some paints but nothing I looked at was what I wanted. I wanted lovely movement, with lofty gaits and a sweet personality. I wanted Roo, just older. </p><p>Which is when Roo's breeder, Lisa offered to let me buy Remmy. I said yes without a second thought. Remmy is an enormous Belgian Warmblood from the award winning breeding farm BannockBurn. She has some of the best sporthorse blood in the world and she will be my new riding horse. I may even breed a foal from her someday because I've always wanted to raise a foal from birth and Remmy has the bloodlines, the atheleticism and the good brain to make a phenominal baby. I already know she can because Roo shows me everyday.</p><p>It will be a couple months before Remmy arrives but I am so very excited! Until the next step, keep it between the flags everyone!</p>Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-22217418156223583022024-01-19T06:14:00.000-08:002024-01-19T06:14:47.150-08:00Just Trucking Along<p class="p1" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">So another year has gone by or maybe two, okay a few. Life has gotten a little away from me and yet some things haven’t changed at all. Roo is still a giant Golden Retriever, sweet, goofy and well out of large pony size and in to the 15 hands range.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>I’m thinking she might stop at 16 hands, which is kind of a relief.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Her half brother from last year is already 14.2 hands at 5 months.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>I mean he is going to be HUGE!<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Roo’s breeder offered to sell him to me and if I already had a going older, schoolmaster type and the room for it I would have definitely bought him. <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 12px;"><br /></p><p class="p1" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Roo is still the best baby horse ever.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>She will be three at the end of April and I’m hoping to be able to take her to a couple of shows and just maybe do a walk trot class with her.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>I don’t know yet.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>My original plan was to have her started by someone I trust but I might just be able to do it myself.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>My only goal this winter was to be the very first person to sit on Roo.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>I bought her as a gangly, fuzzy weanling and I’ve loved every minute of watching her grow up the past two years. Despite not being a professional trainer or having really started any of the other babies I’ve had over the years I wanted to be the first person to sit on my girl.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>And I did it!</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 12px;"><br /></p><p class="p1" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Perhaps not in the most sane way.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>I had planned to have my husband home while I did it but decided later I didn’t want an audience.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>So when he was a work and my daughter was at her after school activities I brought Roo in to the barn, tacked her up (she’s been tacked, lunged and done all the ground work, I’m not completely nuts) and then I brought her in to her stall and just went through all the things we already done before I assessed where her mental state was and then swung my leg over. <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>It was amazing! <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>She didn’t flick an ear and I was just so proud of her.</p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 12px;"><br /></p><p class="p1" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">So next, the pony.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Tara is still at my farm. I want to sell her and yet I don’t.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>If she was a large or even a bigger medium pony I’d just keep her for myself but as a small she just isn’t super fun for me to ride.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>So this spring I’ll be taking her to some breed shows, some local hunter/jumper shows and starting to market her for sale. I hate it because I am so very afraid she will end up in a bad situation that isn’t as understanding of her quirks as I am.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>She is not a beginner child’s pony.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>She’s a super brave, trainer kids pony or one of those really talented A circuit junior riders.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>So I’m trying to find her the right person, a person who will love her and laugh at her quirks rather than punish her for them.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 12px;"><br /></p><p class="p1" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">My daughter is still riding, though I take her over to my friend’s hunter/jumper barn where she rides a pair of saintly lesson horses.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Someday I will get her another horse but for now she’s learning from the lesson horses. <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>As for me, aside from tuning up the pony and bringing along Roo I haven’t really been riding much.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Thief had to retire last winter due to some injuries and my friend’s other hunter gelding is not my cup of tea to ride.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>So I’m sort of a riding horseless.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>I’ll start looking for a schoolmaster of my own later this year when I have the budget for it. <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 12px;"><br /></p><p class="p1" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">The problem is that I want a lovely, well schooled, saintly Warmblood and I can’t afford that.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>A nice OTTB would be good too but the ones I need are all really expensive too.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>I mean the horse market the last few years has just gone insane!<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></p><p class="p2" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 12px;"><br /></p><p class="p1" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">Anyway, until I pick up the keyboard again, keep it between the flags my friends.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></p>Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-73571119343070928802022-07-26T04:51:00.003-07:002022-07-26T04:51:56.981-07:00The Chaos Wrap-Up and a Return to Hunter Land<p> The last year has been a continual study in change and chaos. I started a new job, that I love so much my husband and I decided to stay in VA for another few years. Despite me hating my current house with every fiber of my being, seriously I detest it. Despite not having enough room for all the horses I really want but then who does? But I love the job I’m doing and the freedom it allows me. </p><p>My daughter is starting Kindergarten this year. There is a sentence I NEVER thought would come out of my mouth. And we’ve decided to find a new home for her pony. My daughter loves her pony but doesn’t love riding and it’s not fair to the pony when the pony really, really loves to work. Sporadic lead line rides just aren’t enough for her. So little Miss Tara will be marketed soon to find her a new perfect home. </p><p>Earlier in the spring I started riding at a friend’s hunter/jumper barn. I was the epitome of nervous adult amateur but Thief, the massive, red OTTB gelding was a perfect babysitter and even helped me start to love jumping again. I don’t know where this will take me but it’s nice to be able to ride while Roo is still turning in to the monster Warmblood she seems to moving towards. Seriously she’s 13 months old and already 14.2 hands. I’m starting to wonder if she’ll be as tall as her mom. A daunting thought but she’s so lovely and sweet I can’t imagine it being an issue. </p><p>With the pony leaving I will have a spot open for a new horse. I’m trying to find something very laid back and sweet so that if my daughter really does decide she wants to ride later on that I’ll have something suitable that she can just hack around. </p><p>That is all the update I have right now. Keep it between the flags everyone!</p>Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-69719533327128358372022-03-31T04:24:00.000-07:002022-03-31T04:24:12.993-07:00Change Brings Change<p> There has been so much change in my life this year. The new job is pretty great. I got over my first day jitters and found an introverts dream job. I only really interact with about ten people on a weekly basis. I'm quietly left to do my job and no one wonders where I am if I happen to take a break to walk outside in the sunshine or go to the break room to facetime with my daughter because I leave for work before she gets up. </p><p>Roo is still just as sweet as ever. I swear she's a giant Golden Retriever in a horse shape. She has the cutest crimped curly hair in her forelock and tail. Her breeder says that's from her dad Favor. Roo has been learning all the good horsey citizen things like picking up her feet, having them trimmed by the farrier, tying quietly and just all around learning to be well behaved. Everything is just so easy with her.</p><p><br /></p><p>Not to be outdone my daughter's little Welsh pony Tara is still a lovely, haughty princess of a pony. But over the last two years she has grown to love me. She calls to me every time I leave the house, she willingly lets me hug her, rub her soft red coat and doesn't flee when I come bearing a leadline. She still has her moments of snobby princess where she doesn't want to be caught but now I can entice her in with a treat, where before even that wouldn't convince her to come near me. She's still a bit spooky, but we are working on that with ground work. </p><p>The biggest change came unexpectedly. I convinced my husband to send Cowboy off to a trainer friend of mine. She is an advanced level eventer and used to quirky horses. So off he went for almost 90 days of training. We went to visit him towards the end of 60 days and afterwards, seeing how very happy Cowboy was with a true job my husband made the decision to find Cowboy a new partner. My husband also took on a new job this past year, which he loves. He's working towards his degree in Early Childhood Development and due to that taking up so much of his time he's decided that it would be in the best interest of Cowboy to find him a new partner. </p><p>We let my trainer friend know to start marketing him. I know the horse market is crazy right now. I watched an online auction and saw a Draft cross mare sell for $90,000. This wasn't some spectacular dressage horse or money earning cutting horse or even a jumper. This was a ranch bred Draft cross. I just could not even wrap my head around that. Until Cowboy sold in maybe three weeks. Granted my trainer friend has tons of connections but still it was a little crazy how quickly he was sold. He will be leaving for his new home next week to become the next Appy partner for a lady who wants an all around Appaloosa. I think Cowboy is going to be really happy. He will have a person who loves him for himself.</p><p>Is there another riding age horse in my future while I wait for Roo to grow up? Probably. But most likely it will be next year when my family finally moves home to North Carolina so I can be closer to my mom and sisters. </p><p>Until then keep it between the flags everyone!</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-41199291986552992732021-11-29T14:48:00.000-08:002021-11-29T14:48:12.019-08:00 New Journeys<p> This fall has been my season of change. Today I started the first new job I’ve had in over twenty years. I sat in my car before I was scheduled to go in for a full five minutes, trembling and heart hammering until I told myself that this was a good thing and to get a move on. </p><p>I sent Fox off to his new adventures. I was sad for a little while but not once did I think I had made a mistake. I always want my animals to be happy and if they aren’t I try to figure out why. For Fox that meant letting him go find his own joy with someone who would love him for himself and only himself. </p><p>So then there was this horse shaped hole in my heart. And as every equestrian knows that hole will suck down your soul until it is filled. So I went about trying to find what I wanted within the budget I could muster. I really wanted a sweet, old schoolmaster but those are seriously hard to find in my budget. </p><p>The next option was a very young horse. I sifted, I hunted, I searched. I really wanted a Section D Welsh Cob, one with dressage movement. Those are seriously hard to find, even rarer are cobs that nice within my budget. Yet I managed, somehow to find a very special girl. I now realize that I absolutely have a type. As I looked back on it I saw that all the horses I’ve truly loved were chestnut mares. My first heart horse, hopefully not my last, was a small, deep red, AQHA mare. I’d give almost anything to have that mare back. But she is long in the grave. So in her well loved footsteps comes the new redhead in my life. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIE7LgpY7eLe9uCOJ0XnTLR0MfiZrVPQgBxMxpulhDDPtUJ-JLqT5fArJ5WRtZ6tjqxse0EizxJxRLXHkJ9yO83ul2RAqT6vLl6vdzoZPap5b5FG0cFTQ3ZjEXMoHwMMMiaT4nzS2LnxGr/s2048/4AD36628-617B-4EFF-845E-6A2DC266018F.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIE7LgpY7eLe9uCOJ0XnTLR0MfiZrVPQgBxMxpulhDDPtUJ-JLqT5fArJ5WRtZ6tjqxse0EizxJxRLXHkJ9yO83ul2RAqT6vLl6vdzoZPap5b5FG0cFTQ3ZjEXMoHwMMMiaT4nzS2LnxGr/s320/4AD36628-617B-4EFF-845E-6A2DC266018F.jpeg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4DYsZzXR_bN-9QcBtilCuafXq7gvW6XBykvvOimie_z31pZVqwx2G7LC2t3yuDtyouXKUfPg8FA2kAlN-a_Gk5HoHF36lxBHbW0dlq2Uy4NUGJvgrBC7X0XMF3OupTIriDPrIGJLveEIy/s2048/8F831A56-3C7B-40E4-8ECE-5729A13A26B8.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4DYsZzXR_bN-9QcBtilCuafXq7gvW6XBykvvOimie_z31pZVqwx2G7LC2t3yuDtyouXKUfPg8FA2kAlN-a_Gk5HoHF36lxBHbW0dlq2Uy4NUGJvgrBC7X0XMF3OupTIriDPrIGJLveEIy/s320/8F831A56-3C7B-40E4-8ECE-5729A13A26B8.jpeg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgStY8Qc0sXTYxdDgkdDWwcpCSyp9jfYlrOwPUqcxZB7DlF8PMrqXxSz3f_56thn7sC-KJOmKXesy3BlmfVf4P7mIv5iScdzddw5xipm-KRXLnPzwFC6bobWaIqocxPpxjIZyxuWYDnMZXD/s2048/585CC580-9F23-4262-BDA8-2B53A8B1BDF7.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgStY8Qc0sXTYxdDgkdDWwcpCSyp9jfYlrOwPUqcxZB7DlF8PMrqXxSz3f_56thn7sC-KJOmKXesy3BlmfVf4P7mIv5iScdzddw5xipm-KRXLnPzwFC6bobWaIqocxPpxjIZyxuWYDnMZXD/s320/585CC580-9F23-4262-BDA8-2B53A8B1BDF7.jpeg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>Castleberry Reverie (Roo) is a Welsh Cob x Belgian Warmblood. I flew out to Indiana a couple of weeks ago and got to meet not just Roo but both of her parents and a lot of her siblings. Roo’s dam, Reminisce is a huge, Belgian Warmblood mare. Seriously she was every bit of 17+ hands and her withers were at least a foot over my head. I stepped in to a pasture with three breeding stallions and had not one reservation about my safety as they were some of the sweetest boys I’d ever met. Roo is quiet, snuggly and so very very smart. </p><p>She had never stepped on a trailer before she got on to the shippers and she walked right in. After staying at a farm in Maryland for three days, she then stepped right in to my trailer and behaved liked a seasoned traveler. Roo then stepped off my trailer and settled in to her stall without a single issue. </p><p>Roo is quickly curling her red nose in against my heart and I’m happy to let her. I fully admit it I LOVE CHESTNUT MARES!</p><p><br /></p>Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-85659612579362263202021-07-27T06:45:00.001-07:002021-07-27T06:45:19.991-07:00When the Romance is Over, You Begin a New Journey<p> There are lots of changes in store for me this year. I am finally, FINALLY retiring from the Navy and will have more control over my own life. Purple hair dye here I come! My husband also changed jobs and now has more time to spend at home and is actually doing a job that he enjoys. I am trying to get my photography business off the ground and do other things to try and arrange my life so that I can work from home. </p><p>In my equestrian life I haven’t really done much. I have a lesson scheduled for next week with a new dressage trainer. I have decided to leave jumping behind for awhile and study dressage as I find I am too anxious jumping these days. I still love the pony. She’s sassy and quirky sometimes, but I love that red Welsh mare. Now that Superhubs has more time to spend with Cowboy he’s becoming less of a menace and I will be taking him to my dressage lesson next week. </p><p>I’m taking Cowboy because Fox will be leaving me soon. I have a realized, yes it took me seven years, that my knee jerk reaction to retiring Seneca has landed me with a partner that isn’t a good fit. He doesn’t fully trust me and I feel the same. This never makes for a harmonious partnership. This combined with Fox’s terrible feet mean that I can’t even really dream about competing again. So I made the extremely difficult but necessary decision to return Fox to his adoption program so that they can find him his perfect home. I will probably take some flack for this but it was the right choice. I’m a little sad, a lot guilty, but mostly I’m relieved. I want both of us to be happy and I don’t think Fox is and I know that I’m not.</p><p>So with that on the horizon I am indulging in the ultimate equestrian past time, haunting every possible nook and cranny of the internet to find my next partner. I have my eye on and am discussing a Warmblood Welsh Cob Cross filly, she seems like a lovely meshing of my two favorites types and her siblings all move extraordinarily well. But we’ll see. I’d love something a little older, closer to backing but I can only afford what I can afford. </p><p><br /></p><p>Until next time, keep it between the flags everyone. </p>Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-69220051117819143532020-09-18T14:49:00.001-07:002020-09-18T14:49:29.996-07:00A Christmas Present 40 Years in the Making<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiPjZNF0nvdb6x3XOPholklTT-i3Cuy7ep_OYX0dUqktZPVRpIrC1pStWvlxKWbNAiNirlhprqfs81m1aNuVglkk1XYVkWAAuTWCUpQdaLzfOY1jnExap5GGz6_u44DV8FhOf2XPi4V5kEn/s2048/E2359694-FC58-428B-B8A1-390425294998.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiPjZNF0nvdb6x3XOPholklTT-i3Cuy7ep_OYX0dUqktZPVRpIrC1pStWvlxKWbNAiNirlhprqfs81m1aNuVglkk1XYVkWAAuTWCUpQdaLzfOY1jnExap5GGz6_u44DV8FhOf2XPi4V5kEn/s320/E2359694-FC58-428B-B8A1-390425294998.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>Like most little girls, every Christmas I asked for a real, live pony. I would race to the Christmas tree with hope but there was never a pony under the tree. It took years before I got my first horse but I never stopped wanting that perfect, adorable pony.</p><p><br /></p><p>When my daughter was born my husband agreed to help me fulfill my pony tree someday when my little girl was ready for one. Late last year I as casually looking and found a great little pony, a well bred Welsh, older, been there done that, even went to Pony Finals. But it took me too long to try to convince Superhubs that she was the one and she was sold.</p><p>So I kept an eye out for a pony. And then I saw her. A gorgeous little, chestnut Welsh mare, broke to ride, sweet and well bred. She’s been with us a couple of weeks now and I am more in love with her each day.</p><p>My daughter loves that she can get on and off of her with just the mounting block, loves that she can get the saddle off on her own. Her barn name is Tara. She has a fancy registered name but we call her Tara. She terrorizes Cowboy and hangs out with Fox. My daughter has already fallen off of her once, totally not Tara or Alex’s fault, just an accident. </p><p>I hope we can do some lead line classes at some point and maybe some walk trot next year. I already have dreams of pony foals dancing in my head. </p><p><br /></p><p>Keep it between the flags everyone. </p><p><br /></p>Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-17276474442552382502020-09-18T14:23:00.001-07:002020-09-18T14:23:31.343-07:00Pony Kisses<p><br /></p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0KwSQWkeZxLbFS2PWM3GAT33I9yr6raY_epWvIT2hBTG21fxc7ZQ5cLqMmTnwiED38A2m1iuGinPaCp56cpvUdXKc_9DQ0gSiD9rLWBX73G6tvX_S1utvSZLGSsVV_O1lZ5z9ACAFYtlb/s639/76702032-2886-465B-BB5A-3DBB1E360498.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="426" data-original-width="639" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0KwSQWkeZxLbFS2PWM3GAT33I9yr6raY_epWvIT2hBTG21fxc7ZQ5cLqMmTnwiED38A2m1iuGinPaCp56cpvUdXKc_9DQ0gSiD9rLWBX73G6tvX_S1utvSZLGSsVV_O1lZ5z9ACAFYtlb/s320/76702032-2886-465B-BB5A-3DBB1E360498.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p> The hardest part of loving is having to let go. As the summer wore on Seneca made it more and more obvious that she was ready to rest. I chose a warm day in early September and had Superhubs take my daughter to a camp activity at her gymnastics gym so that I could be alone. Having to worry about other people can be overwhelming for me. Welcome to my particular brand of anxiety. Yippee.</p><p><br /></p><p>We had a party for Seneca the Sunday prior, letting everyone who loved the haughty bay mare say goodbye by spoiling her with treats. I tried to give her a piece of carrot cake but she literally turned her nose up at it. I took loads of pictures of her and spent the morning just hanging out with her. In the end she lay down quietly and slipped away as I stroked her neck. I clipped lots of pieces of her mane and tail and I’ll have jewelry made eventually. I chose to have Seneca cremated so I could take her with us to the next farm. Her urn, a lovely carved wooden box with her name engraved on a brass plate sits on the table next to my bed. I touch it each night as I go to bed and each morning when I get up. </p><p>She was lovely bay Queen and I will miss her terribly. </p><p><br /></p><p>Keep it between the flags everyone. </p>Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-11299735631979332072020-06-04T19:02:00.001-07:002020-06-04T19:02:44.342-07:00The Chaos That Is<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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My daughter is slowly learning to ride. I don’t push but wait for her to ask me to ride and hope she will love it as I do. Fox is her lead line pony for now, though I see a Welsh pony in our future. He is gentle and tolerant with her and way more trustworthy, at least to me than, Cowboy. My daughter has even ridden Seneca a couple of times, and because I knew it might be my last time I too swung up on the big bay mare, though in just a rope halter as anything else might cause my girl too much pain. </div>
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Several months ago now, we got new neighbors. Lovely people who I really like and actually socialize with. I know the anti-social queen actually wants to be friendly with the neighbors. At first they had just one horse, a big chestnut, OTTB mare named Amelia. For awhile Amelia came to live with us because the neighbors property wasn’t ready yet but their boarding barn was closing. From the first day Seneca was in absolute love with this mare. She even shared her grain, which I had never seen her do. So when the new property was ready I agreed to let Seneca keep Amelia company over there. It was great for everyone. Until they got the third horse. The gelding was a large, very stocky, old style paint, think part draft looking. He was old and grumpy. He did not like Seneca much and they did not get along well. To the point that we all agreed Seneca should come home.</div>
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I’ve been putting off this post for a while. It wasn’t one that I thought I would ever have to write, hoped I never would. But hope can only take you so far. Denial a little further but eventually truth in all its terrible glory will not stand idly by.<br />
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My dear, sometimes sweet, High Queen, Seneca has cancer. I’d known about the common types of equine cancer. These are sarcomas and melanoma. My lovely drama queen has neither of those. No, no, common types of cancer were not good enough for her. Seneca has osteosarcoma, otherwise known as bone cancer. It’s extremely rare in horses. Look it up, you’ll see just how outside of the box my mare had to go to make her walk in to that good night a spectacularly unusual one.<br />
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It all started just before Halloween. My travel plans changed so I was actually home for Halloween when I wasn’t expecting to be. When I went to feed my ponies one afternoon I noticed a small swelling on Seneca’s jaw, just behind her chin and about where the noseband buckle would be. It was a little sensitive to the touch but she was eating normally. The vet was due out the next week for fall shots so I decided to have her take a look at the swelling if it was still there when the vet came out.<br />
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I’m writing this from a hotel room in Florida, while wishing that I was at home spending time with Seneca. I don’t know how long she has left. As long as she’s happy, eating and acting normally I will continue to spoil her. There will be a day though, probably before Christmas when Seneca will look at me and I will know that it is time to let her go. I’m doing everything I can to make the best memories possible until the end but it is so very hard because I have loved her big, snobby, brown butt for eleven years. And I do not want to let her go, I know it’s what’s best but it hurts so damn much.<br />
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<span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Every time I realize how long it has been since </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I’ve</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> posted I feel horrible. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Unfortunately</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> this is my life right now. I have a full time job in the Navy (so my life </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">isn’t</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> really my own. YET!) </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">an </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">almost three year old daughter who can be at moments a holy te</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">rror</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">, a farm, a big property to maintain and a house to keep clean and organized. </span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">So</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> my life is pretty full. What this means is that I ride when I can but all my plans for competitions, clinics, and lessons went out the window a while ago. These days when I need a little flatwork inspiration I hit up some of my favorite trainers on YouTube. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">It’s</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> not as good as being able to have a lesson with a dressage coach or a jumping coach but it’s what fits my life right now. </span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I moved to a new command this past January. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">And</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> it’s not exactly what I was hoping for. I was hoping for a nice quiet shore duty to spend my last three years in the Navy before I retire and move on to a life that I get to orchestrate and make the choices </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">for</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">. This is not that command. I travel. A LOT! The first five months I was at the command I was only really in the office for a total of two weeks. This winter </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I’ll</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> be spending three months away from home with jaunts back to the farm for Thanksgiving and Christmas. I will miss my daughter’s third Halloween, but not her birthday thankfully.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">So what has been going on with my horses you ask? Not a lot. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I’ve</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> been riding when I can, which with the current weather has either been super early in the morning or really late in the evening. Recently </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I’ve</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> had the Red Rogue Pony working on transitions and </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">cavaletti</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> work. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Plus</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> working on the right side bend. He is super stiff and unyielding to that direction. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I’m </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">pretty sure it’s due to me favoring that side and not being as strong on my left which I’m also trying to work on. </span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I’ve</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> also been riding Cowboy a little bit. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">He’s</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> still not my first choice to ride but we’re managing to get along. He also can be super stiff so </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">we’re</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> working on bending and </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">cavaletti</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> work as well. I’m hoping someday to take him to a dressage show but with my work life pretty much sucking up all my time and what’s left going to my daughter I just can’t ride as much as I used to. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">So</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> I have to work with what I’ve got. </span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">My daughter while not completely sold on the aspect of horses as far as riding goes does occasionally ask me to ride. I always choose Fox because he is the least likely to do something stupid when we are just strolling at the slowest walk possible. Which Fox and my daughter both love. My daughter has her own little helmet and I see tiny </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">j</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">o</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">ds</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> and paddock boots in her future. Super horsey mommy squeal!</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Even though </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I’m</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> not riding as much as I was this fact has not stopped me from acquiring some new equestrian items. Because my pre-pregnancy </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Kerrits</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> Cross-over breeches </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">don’t</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> quite fit the way they used to I got a couple new pairs of breeches. My </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Kerrits</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> are low rise, and having seen the photos of myself post pregnancy in those breeches I opted for mid-rise to </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">er </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">camouflage certain aspects of my anatomy that I </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">don’t</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> want to announce to the world. Love handles cough </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">cough</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">. I bought two pairs from two different brands. I bought a very nice pair of </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Romfh</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> full seats, and a lovely pair of </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Ariat</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> Tri-factor full seats. I </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">haven’t</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> had a chance to wear the </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Romfhs</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> yet but the </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Ariat’s </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">wore really well and made me feel very secure in the saddle. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I’ll </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">put a full review on all my new stuff under that tab on the main page.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I also got two </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">more new things</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">. One I already have and LOVE, the other will be arriving tomorrow. Since the beginning of my riding life as a wee little girl on </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">ponies</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> I have hated riding in my tall boots. Prior to getting half </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">chaps</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> I rode in breeches in paddock boots almost exclusively unless I was showing. Then I got half chaps and adored them. I have a pair of black suede </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Ariat</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> half chaps that are nearly 20 years old. In the way back days of my childhood when my parents </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">couldn’t</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> afford a pair of fancy tall boots I had a PVC pair that I would shine with Armor All for shows. Then later when my feet stopped growing my mom bought me a pair of </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Devonaire</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> pull on tall boots. I loved the look but </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">really hated</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> riding in them because I lost the close contact feel. When I could afford to buy my own boots and after I broke my ankle and I absolutely had to have zip up boots I got a pair of </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Ariat</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> Crown</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> Pros. I was very much in love with them but again I lost the feel my half chaps gave me. Yet </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">again</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> I only wore them when I had to for shows. </span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">So I dealt with it, relegated my tall boots for when I had no choice. Then one day at the local tack </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">shop</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> I was perusing the tall boots and saw this style of boot that I’d heard of, seen on a few upper level riders but thought were kind of odd looking. Enter the </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Ariat</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Volants</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">. The minute I tried on those boots it was an instant affair. They were so comfortable and the already broken in panel on the inside had me sighing and trying to figure out how to afford them. I stalked e-bay and anywhere else that might have them at a discount. No joy. I put my unrequited love aside. Until </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Smartpak</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> put their </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Ariat</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> Sport V’s on clearance at the same </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">time</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> I had some extra funds. I snapped up a pair and they have now become my favorite boot to ride in. Along with the new </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">breeches</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> I feel like a tornado couldn’t dislodge me from the saddle.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">The last new item, that </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">is at this moment winging</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> its way to me, is a new bridle. I am a </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">certified bridle hoarder</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I’d</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> have to physically count all my bridles, something I am loath to do, but I think this will make bridle number 14. I only have two ridable horses. Did acknowledging my bridle hoarding stop me from buying a new bridle? Nope. I got a new </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">PS of Sweden Jump </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Off </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">Bridle. I was dithering back and forth between the Jump Off and the High Jump, but ultimately went with the Jump Off. </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">I’m </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">really excited to see if either or both of the boys likes this bridle more than the </span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;">SmartPak</span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> dressage bridle they both currently share. </span></div>
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Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-35056076095528278952019-08-20T18:16:00.000-07:002019-08-20T18:16:00.297-07:00The Sweet Spot<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Home again, home again, jiggety, jig! I’ve finally been home for longer than a week! And the weather hasn’t been totally horrible! I’ve managed to ride Fox twice and Cowboy twice. We are only doing tack walking with a lap of the field at the trot as the end of the work out. Since the ponies haven’t been ridden since May I want to take it easy on them and gently get everyone, myself included back in to shape.<br />
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Meanwhile I’ve had the Farrier Fairy out to attend to hooves, and my vet to get everyone’s shots, and coggins up to date for the spring. Plus I got some x-rays done of Fox’s front feet so that the Farrier Fairy and I can make some more informed decisions about how to best take care of Fox’s feet.<br />
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Riding the two boys has been interesting. Fox is the lazy, I will only do the smallest amount unless pushed horse. He is also the one that when he thinks the ride should be done he’ll try and shy, grab the bit and run back towards his girlfriend. Naughty brat.<br />
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Cowboy on the other hand has been a sort of delightful surprise. I’m not saying he doesn’t have his moments of “I don’t wanna.” He does and he has more of a reason to protest than Fox does. Cowboy has been my husband’s sometimes trail horse for the last six years. Meaning he got ridden maybe three or four times a year. I had no serious interest in riding him. I mean come on I had the lovely High Queen and all her high jinks, then the Sunday Stroller gelding.<br />
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But Cowboy is that horse that always comes to the gate first, would always rather follow you around than be with the other horses. He is curious about absolutely everything. Plus he is super pretty and he is a very lovely mover. I didn’t realize what a gift it is to sit on a nice mover until I rode Cowboy a few days ago. Trotting him was such a change, a floating, gorgeous change from riding Fox that I was really kicking myself for not doing it ages ago. Then he got a moment of naughty and broke in to a canter. The most balanced, uphill canter I’ve sat on in years.<br />
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Now I love Fox, he is that easy going, never really spook at anything, best trail horse, level headed, jump anything pony that I wanted for a long, long time. But he is also a lot of work. He is never going to be that self initiated forward mover. I always have to work hard to get him to do dressage the way it needs to be done. And while this makes me a better rider, it can be exhausting. <br />
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And then there is Cowboy. He is naturally foward, not hot, just a big, energetic mover. I have been over the last couple of months, from when the summer of hell finally ended, tried to be kinder to Cowboy, to try and see him as less of a brat who is always bugging you, and more of a friend who always wants to be part of what you are doing. I’ve spent more time with him, groomed him more and generally went about changing the way I see him. <br />
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Another blogger, who I love, writes about her riding of her spicy mare. They went to a clinic with Dom Schramm, one of my favorite riders and clinicians. Dom told the rider to ride her mare like she’s sweet. I took this to mean that if you expect naughty, bad behavior, you are going to get it. I’m not saying not to be prepared, but don’t look for it. I’m trying to ride Cowboy as if he’s sweet, letting go over past transgressions and trying to appreciate what Cowboy has to offer.<br />
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In honor of that, when the vet came out I asked her to list Cowboy’s show name on his coggins so that if I can get him to some shows this year I can show him with the name I chose. Which is<br />
“The Sweet Spot”<br />
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Keep it between the flags everyone! And Happy New Year!<br />
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Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-80234754971056851032018-11-05T12:41:00.002-08:002018-11-05T12:41:05.673-08:00Recommitting, Reengaging and Revitalizing<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">So here I am post the summer from hell and I still haven't gotten
back on the proverbial and literal horse. There are a lot of reasons I haven't
gotten back in the saddle yet. Some are easy to define, others not so
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">My motivation to do more than
just groom, pick hooves and feed treats just hasn't been there lately. A
lot of it had to do with coming down from the ultra-high stress bus that I had
been riding for almost four months. I lived with a high level of daily stress
for so long that it took several weeks of little to no stress to bring me back
to a baseline. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">Which is about when my desire
to ride again began kicking in. I started reading my Practical Horseman’s
again, perusing the Dover/SmartPak catalogs, touching with longing all my good
tack that is currently living in my bedroom as my tack room is also the guest
bedroom. I started looking at my ponies with an eye towards what we need to
work on, how we're going to get all the muscle we lost back and what we can do
this winter to make riding easier. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">Essentially I found my riding
mojo again, I found my riding love again, I found myself. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">I still have a month long
training to do that will have me away from home from mid-November to
mid-December. Which sort of sucks because I need to do the annual shaving of
the wooly beast who, while he is definitely a Thoroughbred, is absolutely
convinced that he is an Appaloosa/Welsh Pony cross. So while my other two, the
OTTB mare and the actual Appy are just mildly fuzzy, Fox has nearly a full on
winter coat already. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">So here I am laying it down in
black and white. I am recommitting to my riding, reengaging with my passion and
my pony and revitalizing my heart and my dreams. This year we will go
Beginner Novice, we will canter dressage worthy circles, we will do a clinic
with someone great. We will go down to the North Carolina Horse Park and do the
War Horse Eventing Trial. We will be the partners that I know we can be.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">I will commit to taking Cowboy
to a horsemanship clinic and find our own partnership so that he can have a job
and feel loved and needed. We will prance down centerline and wow everyone with
how lovely a mover he is. We will do a cross rails jumping class and we will
trail ride and have fun. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">I listen to a lot of audio
books. Sometimes I listen to fiction, sometimes memoirs, and sometimes self-help.
There was one self-help book that talked about writing down or saying your
goals out loud. How these simple acts reinforce things in your mind and
makes it easier and believable to achieve your goals. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">So here I am, this is the year
we get off our butts and do all those things I've been dreaming of. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">Keep it Between the Flags
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Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-71230449205780443952018-10-26T11:13:00.000-07:002018-10-26T11:13:02.107-07:00Why I Dropped Off the Earth Again<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I realized after logging in today that I have not posted since April. After the summer I have had it feels like years ago instead of months. So let me dive in to the reason I dropped off the earth again.<br />
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Way back in March I entered what I jokingly call the Second Circle of the Circus. In the Navy when you are an E6 (Its a rank) the next move is to E7, or Chief. It's a big deal, a lot of changes and responsibility come with it. It is not an easy move to make. First there is the exam (The first circle of the circus), then there is Making Board, meaning you've passed the exam and now your record will be looked at by a board of upper rank enlisted and officers to decide whether or not they will recommend you for Chief.<br />
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The Selected for Board results come out in March, this is the Second Circle. As expected I made Board, but I didn't get excited at that point. I've made Board before and not been selected. But I wanted to be prepared just in case so I started the Couch to 5K program using their app. And I completed my second ever in my life 5K on Memorial day. I actually did a trail run through a horse ranch which was pretty cool.<br />
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Then there is the long wait for the Selection results to come out. For me the results come out usually in the first week or two of July. I took leave the first week of July so I could flip out in private if I didn't get selected again. And the results were late so I ended up being at work the day they came out anyway.<br />
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And I was Selected, this is the end of the third circle of the circus and the beginning of the fourth. The fourth circle is Initiation. This is like extreme bootcamp. Lots of PT and other stuff to prepare you for being promoted.<br />
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So that is where I disappeared to for so long. Now I'm on the other side. And I only have one sound horse right now. Seneca as usual is happy in her permanent retirement. Fox must have been feeling a bit jealous of this and realizing my preoccupation with work was about to come to an end and his cushy holiday with it, he contrived to be on the injured list.<br />
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A few weeks ago, in the dark, I went out to feed my three ponies. Fox limped, three legged limped up to me out of the dark. I quickly hung up the phone conversation I was having and went to check him out. He'd cut up his left pastern, but he was actually limping on the right front foot. That was strange all on it's own. Later I saw the gate between the two pastures was wrecked. Which explained the cut and I thought Fox must have gotten hung up on it and pulled his shoulder. So I applied some first aid, did my best to make him comfortable and added some bute to his feed.<br />
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After several days his limping was less and and less though not gone. Then the Farrier Fairy came out and when she went to trim that right front foot we discovered that he wasn't injured he had just contrived a massive sole abcess at the same time he'd cut himself. Sneaky pony.<br />
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So that leaves Fox on the injured list a while longer and I'm treating his recovering foot and to try to stave off thrush. Meanwhile this leaves Cowboy as my only sound horse. Uhmm yea?<br />
I have been trying to let go of the past lately and learn to love that big spotted beast. I still see lots of lunging in our future but it's not out of the realm of possibility to see us swaggering down the centerline some time this winter.<br />
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Also stay tuned to the Reviews page for some updates on a new footing solution I added to one of my run-in sheds and the truly awesome haynets I got this year that even Fox hasn't managed to destroy!<br />
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Keep it between the flags everyone!<br />
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Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-5016044205021155222018-04-25T10:30:00.003-07:002018-04-25T10:30:59.275-07:00The Legacy of Fear <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I don't know when, or why, or how but somewhere along the line between riding Seneca, her retirement and finding Fox I became afraid of speed. Years ago before she became a pasture puff I had no problem cantering Seneca at home. In fact, right before the seemingly endless rounds of vet visits and time off, I was beginning to work on cantering fences. This precipitated the whole saddle fit debacle where I realized that my current saddle did not quite fit Her Majesty. <br />
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Later that year I did my last XC schooling with Seneca where we actually cantered a XC fence. This was a big step for us and I hoped a bright spark for the future. Except a month later Seneca began the rounds of on again off again lameness that was the downward spiral towards her retirement. <br />
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Enter Thrill Factor, aka Fox, the slowest, most unmotivated OTTB on the planet. Which makes his registered name completely ironic. I loved him from the moment I saw him. He was absolutely not what I was looking for. I wanted tall, elegant, flashy. He was a small, decent mover and a very strange, ever changing chestnut color. But he was slow, quiet and a snuggler. I think the snuggling is what really sold me. He's very vocal and always comes to the fence when I walk out to see him. And off the property he behaves like a plow horse 99% of the time. <br />
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Yet I had this mental block about cantering him. Part of it is that he's hard to motivate in to a canter. Except that one time in front of a BNT when I was only asking for a trot. So at home for the last year I almost never cantered and only cantered occasionally when off the property. He would trot nearly any kind of fence without looking twice at it unless I was nervous about it. Then it was more of a "are you sure Mom?"<br />
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But last week I was on vacation to do clean-up of the property after the nasty winter we've had. Which provided me the opportunity to ride my horse multiple times in a week. So I worked on letting go of my fear, of putting my trust in the red pony and just dealing with whatever shenanigans he might pull. Except there were no shenanigans. He gave me the canter fairly easily on both rides. The first ride I only asked him for a few strides of canter a couple of times to see if the button was there. If he would give me the canter without doing anything naughty.<br />
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The second ride I made him give the canter for a lap of my make-shift arena. In both directions. Which he did, even though he tried to drop out of the canter a couple of times. I was so very happy with just those few moments of the ride. I mean he gave me other good things but I struggled with cantering Fox. <br />
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I'm not even sure why other than I hadn't cantered him consistently for a very long time. He would occasionally give me the canter after a fence and I would praise him and ride it out when he did but again he's very lazy and getting the canter after a fence wasn't a given. <br />
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So where do we go from here? I'm working on arena exercises to strengthen Fox's topline, doing our dressage circles of death, and we will be working on cantering ground poles soon. I am tentatively planning on doing one of the War Horse Series shows this summer. I say tentative because I plan a lot but often the execution gets muddled. I'm also planning on taking Fox to some lessons with a local eventer and hopefully some dressage lessons again with Sprieser Sporthorses. <br />
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Until then keep it between the flags!</div>
Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-18115260871196003872018-02-20T08:16:00.003-08:002018-02-20T08:16:45.488-08:00You Do What You Gotta Do<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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So as my work life becomes more complicated, I inevitably get more stress in my life. Which means I need to ride more, groom more, be with my four legged stress reliever more. So how do you make more time in an already crazy busy life? Sacrifice, my eventing friends, sacrifice. <br />
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A very long time ago I was in Navy Boot Camp. Your sleep deprived, often sick with respiratory illness due to the close quarters and your day is schedule to within an inch of it's life. You have no privacy and no freedom. It's just something you have to endure. Towards the end of Boot Camp there is an event called Battle Stations. Basically you stay up all day, then when you should be going to sleep you go out and play war games all night, literally, you don't get to sleep until the evening of the NEXT night. During Boot Camp I was a notoriously slow runner. We would be in the drill hall doing aerobic exercises, then you pause and do a lap around the gym, come back and do more exercises. By the time I got done doing my lap, it was time to do a lap again.<br />
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During Battle Stations, back in my day (They have an animatronic ship made by Disney now), you sprinted from each of the different buildings where various events were held to the next. The worst was from the tunnel that passes under a road to the pool building. It was a really long distance. And as I stated I was a slow runner. The rule was you had to stay in front of the last RDC (Recruit Division Chief), if you fell behind the last RDC you failed and had to return to your barracks building, wait 24 hours then try again. After experiencing the first half, and coming up on the dreaded run to the pool building, there was NO WAY I was going to re-run Battle Stations. So I made it my absolute mission to stay in front of the last RDC. Which is what I did. On that last long run we lost half the girls in my Division. I conquered Battle Stations, got my Navy Ball Cap (the symbol that you were now a real sailor versus the Recruit Ball Cap) went to the celebratory breakfast and then went back to my building for the day's activities.<br />
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The first chance they got, two girls in my Division who didn't pass that night, and hadn't been very nice to me during the rest of Boot Camp, came over and asked me, sort of snottily. "We just want to know, since you are such a slow runner, how you passed and we didn't." Keep in mind, the entire division was made up almost entirely of babies straight from high school. I was 25, married and had already lived out in the big bad world, with it's bills and crappy jobs. I turned around, looked them in the eye and said "I wanted it more than you did."<br />
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So here we are, if I want to ride, I have to really, really want it. Because making time in my day to ride means giving up sleep and time spent with my daughter. Some days I will have to get up at 4AM, so I can ride before work. I will have to get up early on the weekends that my husband closes at his store so that I can ride before he goes to work. If I want it, I have to really want it.<br />
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Here are my motivations. Between now and July/August, the Navy will be convening it's selection boards to decide who gets to be a Chief (E7, the next rank I need to achieve). This is the time of year that I call The Circus. Because it starts in January when we take the exam, then we have to wait to see if we made a high enough score to move on to the second phase. If we make the second phase in March then we have to wait until July/August to find out if we have been selected for the next rank. See? A big, ugly circus that goes on for months. On top of this I am now in charge of not just all the enlisted personnel in my depart, but two other divisions within that department. Yippee! More work. <br />
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Plus I'll be going in to what is called "My Window" in May. It means I can start trying to choose orders, or extend with my current command. I don't know yet what I am going to do. <br />
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So there's all that craziness. And then there is the goodness, something so great I can't even express how excited I am. Kim Severson, 4* Eventer, and Olympian is coming to our little Eventing No Man's Land! She's going to be doing several clinics here. That if nothing else is getting me out there and riding, no matter the weather, or hour of the morning. Yesterday it rained almost all day, after raining most of last week. Usually I would take a pass on riding, because my pastures become a slippery swamp when it rains that much. I sucked it up, brushed the mud of the Red Rogue pony and we walked for 30 minutes, doing nothing more strenuous than dressage circles of death, spiraling in and spiraling out again. I really want to ride with Kim. She has been on my Dream to Ride With list for a long time. Can't WAIT!<br />
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Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-86705724846664038442017-12-26T18:35:00.002-08:002017-12-26T18:35:54.895-08:00Learning to Live Between the Lines<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Can’t believe I’ve left the blog undone for so long. So let me fill you in on everything that has happened since June. Well her Majesty, the High Queen tried to kill herself off for the second year in a row. Last year it was Potomac Horse Fever, this year is was the mystery injury that seriously if it had been any deeper she would be dead. I found her Majesty not quite right, and her girth line looked weird from a distance so I went out to check on her. And found, way underneath, where I can’t even imagine how she did it, a massive wound. So deep I immediately knew it was beyond my skills and called the vet. <br />
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Despite the High Queen’s snobbishness she actually is really good about being doctored. Even with just local anesthetic she stood still as a statue while the vet stitched up the muscle (yes, it was that deep) then the skin. We left a drain in and I had my marching orders to try and keep her Majesty quiet as possible. So the boys went out in separate side pastures, and I tried to keep Seneca secured in the run-in-shed. Which worked for exactly three days and then she refused to stay secured.<br />
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She’s healed up fine and is back to bossing Cowboy around. Fox is back to living by himself with nose over the fence privledges. This because Seneca’s injury was the second nearly life ending injury that has happened when Fox has been in the pasture with other horses. The first was Cowboy’s infamous skull fracture. I don’t know if Fox was really involved with Seneca’s injury but I’d rather not take the chance.<br />
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My riding has been inconsistent at best. Life has just been really hectic and I can’t bring myself to ride if I’m the only one home with my daughter. I keep thinking that if my daughter was napping, and I had a bad accident where I was unconscious who would find her? Who would even know she was in the house? So I just can’t do it.<br />
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And with Superhub’s super awful schedule now I just don’t get to ride a lot anymore. I’m trying to be okay with this. Most of the time it feels like I really don’t have a life anymore. Or rather I don’t have the life I once did. From time to time if its not my turn to pick up my daughter from daycare I’ll stop and window shop or stroll through the local tack shop. I get to relive a little bit of the life I used to have.<br />
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Don’t get me wrong I love my daughter but I miss my old life or rather parts of my old life. Retirement from the Navy seems to get further away every year. I chose to add an extra year so that Superhubs could go back to school and dump the retail job. He’s going to be a Physical Therapy tech which I think is really cool. We are hoping he can start classes next fall. <br />
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So really all my equestrian goals have gone out the window. I ride when I can but I’ve put showing away for now. What will the new year bring? No idea.<br />
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Keep it between the flags everyone!</div>
Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-36477110264420852792017-06-08T11:43:00.002-07:002017-06-08T11:43:53.201-07:00The Goal<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Originally when I made my riding plans for this year the goal was a big dressage show that is going down in the middle of June. But as it grew closer and closer the situation became more and more obvious. We weren't ready. We weren't ready in the "my pony can't canter" a circle way. <br />
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Oh Slugworth (his new nickname), can canter, when I am really aggressive with him and in no way does the shapes we can make resemble a dressage-y circle. So I had to come up with a new goal.<br />
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I still want to take Fox down to the War Horse Eventing series at the Carolina Horse Park, but that is way, way out in like October or November. I needed something closer to pour my energy towards.<br />
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I'm listening to this audio book that talks about the Universal Intelligence, God, the Powers Above whatever you choose to call it. The book says if you pour your goals and aspirations out in to the world in a verbal and or written way that the Universal Intelligence will answer you. <br />
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So just as I was thinking about needing a goal to work towards, something fun but challenging that I could do with my horse that wasn't out the realm of possibility or hugely expensive. And, the Universal Intelligence didn't answer, or maybe it worked through Facebook to bring me what I needed but either way I have a new goal.<br />
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Last year I volunteered at the long format Three Day Event at So8ths called The Heart of the Carolinas. It was absolutely the best time I've ever had volunteering, great people, fabulous venue, awesome food. I really wanted to volunteer again this year but Dear Daughter wasn't sleeping through the night yet and unfortunately Superhubs is the worlds heavist sleeper so I had to stay home. One of the friends I met last year, also went to volunteer this year. And while she was there she and a few others decided to put a clinic together to be held at So8ths. With a trainer that my friend has been raving about that I had been thinking about taking some lessons from when Fox was a bit further along in his training.<br />
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On top of a fabulous venue, and an awesome trainer the price of the clinic won't break the bank! There is only one little hurdle. Fox isn't cantering fences yet and I need to be at or very close to jumping BN height with him to not be a total embarrassment at this clinic. Thankfully the clinic is in mid-August. So I have around 2, 2 1/2 months to get him there. If ever there was incentive this is it.<br />
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So Slugworth is the least motivated OTTB on the planet. He just really has no desire to canter. So I got some exercises to strengthen his hind end and on the advice of several people I'm going to attempt to take the slug out hacking by himself to see if this might get him moving a bit more energetically. I've hacked him down the road to the next farm on his own and he's been great. So hopefully he won't turn in to a raging donkey-beast on the farm roads which are safer for hacking on. I want happily motivated not seething dragon. So we shall see this weekend. In order to ride I've to get up early and be done before Superhubs has to leave for work. Motivation, motivation, motivation.<br />
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Keep it between the flags everyone!</div>
Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-29268457071223389782017-04-03T07:19:00.000-07:002017-04-03T07:19:37.307-07:00Worth It<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Early this past Saturday morning I went about the usual things I have to do before getting on the road with horse in tow. I fed, let the ducks out, packed the trailer will all my mountains of stuff. Seriously, why do have so much stuff? *cough, tack shops, cough* Tack shops are so evil!<br />
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Superhubs backed the truck up for me, I'm still trying to learn this one, but I did do the rest of the hooking up all by myself! Then Superhubs went back in to the house to wrangle the baby. I had my own toddler to wrangle as Fox decided, even though he'd been leaping in to the trailer for the last three weeks, that today he didn't particularly want to get in. *Sigh* Twenty minutes later he was happily loaded and eating hay.<br />
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We finally got on the road about a half hour after I wanted to be but we were going! I'd had to reschedule this lesson twice already, for good reasons, but still I had been looking forward to a lesson with my new dressage coach since early February!<br />
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Traffic was ugly in places, thankfully Superhubs was driving. I tend to yell obscenities at the other drivers when I drive. Superhubs on the other hand is usually more passive aggressive. He just flips on the truly blinding light bar on the front of the truck.<br />
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After what felt like forever we were finally able to pull in to Sprieser Sporthorses! Absolutely gorgeous place! Superhubs trekked off to show Fox's coggins and with the baby napping in the truck I unloaded the red pony and tacked up in a hurry since we were already a few minutes late. Evil freaking traffic! Thankfully he was clean and I just need to pick his feet and brush him down a little. Boots on, tack on, rider's gear on away we went to walk through the big barn to the gloriously HUGE indoor. Seriously I felt like I was walking in to indoor arena heaven. It's the biggest one I've ever seen at a private farm. <br />
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Then we proceeded to have our butts kicked by my new coach. But I wanted that, we NEEDED that in a big way. She was upbeat, positive, told me lots of good things but also hammered home the fact that I had been letting Fox be a lazy slug, therefore he had decided that was a good place to be. I don't think Fox has ever trotted so fast in his life! Our rides from now on will be a lot different that is for sure. More forward, more forward, FORWARD!<br />
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My current goal is to be able to do the Training Level 1 and 2 tests by June and go to the big dressage show with my new coach and team at Virginia Summer Dressage which is going down in mid-June. <br />
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If we can get there, with a publically acceptable canter transition, then in the fall I'm going to try and tackle a low level horse trial at the Carolina Horse Park. We shall see.<br />
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Keep it between the flags everyone!</div>
Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-78626582258804372032017-03-27T07:29:00.001-07:002017-03-27T07:29:27.818-07:00Opportunities and Possibilities<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Earlier in the year when I was looking ahead with hope and optimism I tried to decide what I wanted to do with the red rogue pony this year. January 2016 (pre-pregnancy) I was putting down on paper how I was going to finally get to a Beginner Novice horse trial. Well then the big monkey wrench got thrown and my whole season was gone.<br />
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It didn't stop me from buying a massive amount of horse gear or dreaming of the future. My pony got almost an entire year off, not that he complained, lazy beast that he is. But it put me back at square one again this winter. How was I going to get from not even a publically acceptable canter to going Beginner Novice? How was I going to get from my small dream of being able to ask for the canter and getting it, to the bigger dreams of BN, to the biggest dream (right now anyway) of completing a long format three day?<br />
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Well, when you don't know the way (women anyway) stop and ask for directions. In rider land that means getting help from instructors, trainers, coaches. Looking back on my riding education I realized I didn't have the best upbringing, riding-wise. I had a lot of desire to ride. I had a lot of teachers but no one that really stands out, except that one awful one that verbally abused me.<br />
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My best memories, the ones where I felt I learned the most were from a couple of people. My old coach Chris, who I sorely wish had stayed out here on the east coast and Dom Schramm. I had two clinics with Dom and I dearly wish that either of his two home bases were a manageable distance. They aren't though anyplace in Pennsylvania and Florida is not even drive it for a weekend manageable. But thinking about how much I got out of those two clinics really got me thinking about the quality of education I want. <br />
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So, this Saturday I am sucking up the 3 1/2 hours, one way, drive to central Virginia to ride with a new coach. She is one of three trainers at Spreiser Sport Horses (you can read about Lauren on COTH where her blog lives) For the rest of this year, until maybe October or November, Fox and I will be getting our dressage on. I have plans, if we can get the canter issue sorted, to take Fox to a multi-day dressage show in June. It will be one of two planned outings. I'll try to go to some dressage schooling shows around home, when all the stars align(meaning, weather, husband to watch the baby and time to train the red pony). <br />
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The second outing is still in the maybe stages but I want to take Fox down to the War Horse horse trials in North Carolina and do one of the lower levels. I want an easy, stress free, confidence building outing. Then we'll work on our xc and show jumping, plus the dressage because I actually love it. So that maybe, just maybe next year we can go out at Beginner Novice. <br />
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No I did not fall off the edge of the planet, although some days if I could get a whole night's sleep I would volunteer. Motherhood is not for the faint of heart. I'm going to try, I stress try, not to talk too much about the baby over here. I'll leave that for my Eventer + Baby Makes Three blog. <br />
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So here is the low down on what's been happening around the farm since I went off radar last July. <br />
Fox got a really long vacation. I was able to lunge him some but he's not easy to lunge so it was hit or miss. Just before Thanksgiving I decided I was ready to get back in to the saddle. I had just had my check-up from the doctors and I was green lighted. <br />
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Fox had other ideas. I wanted to lunge the spunk out of him first, no need to eat dirt on my first time back in the saddle. I put on his boots, I prepared him for lunging and he was a raging donkey. He evaded me, twice taking off with the lunge line in tow. The second time bucking and flailing like a rodeo bronc. And he killed both his hoof boots. Granted they had dry rot from sitting for a long time but still, both of them?!<br />
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So he got another vacation while I sent the boots to the Farrier Fairy to repair them. I got them back sometime after Christmas and finally just got on him one day. He behaved himself, mostly. It never fails, every time I get on my horse, the neighbor on the other side of the fence starts doing something loud and obnoxious. This person has an obsession with yard work and is constantly running some loud piece of equipment. It took me twenty minutes of walking to get Fox relaxed enough to behave at the trot. Overall it wasn't a bad ride.<br />
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But I've forgotten that ride was not my first back in the saddle on Fox. Prior to that day I had loaded up my red bratty pony and driven down to the big indoor that's about an hour from me, but free to use during the week. Love that place! The only caveat is that you can't get the arena exclusively if there are other riders already there or they show up while you are riding you have to share. No big deal. I ended up sharing the arena with three other ladies that day who were just doing some playing around. Fox was his usual good natured self and we even jumped a baby vertical AND cantered off! That day was fantastic. I'm hoping for more days like that.<br />
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Also my brand new, no one's butt except mine has ever touched it, dressage saddle finally arrived! I had ordered it back in November not realizing that it was being shipped from Italy and would be weeks and weeks away from actually having it. But it finally arrived right before my birthday. And I was sick as a dog when it arrived. This did not stop me from tacking up Fox and slipping in to the saddle for just five minutes of walking and about thirty seconds of trotting. LOVE!<br />
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Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-74473624842554436072016-07-28T11:59:00.002-07:002016-07-28T11:59:11.794-07:00Changes and Motivations<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Earlier this year when I found out I was pregnant (76 days to go!) nothing changed for me, at least not right away. I kept on riding, despite the crappy weather, doing our first baby hunter show, to get back in to the swing of things. Around mid-March Fox and I had what would be our last ride together for a long while. I took him to a local farm that has a lovely arena and I moseyed around while my friend A and her mare did more serious things. Fox had a small brainless moment in which his front feet left the ground, while his back feet spun to the left. Nothing huge or scary but it was enough that I decided to stop riding after that day. We did keep riding that day and wandered out to the XC so A could school her mare and Fox could make friends with the three loose ponies. He's always so enthralled with the smaller equines. I think he feels like a giant next to them and it gives him a good feeling to not be the designated shorty.<br />
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Back to deciding to stop riding. If he was going to be throwing in random airs above ground while we were off the farm (98% of the time he's an angel off the farm) then I knew I couldn't trust him to take care of me at home where he's usually an a$$hat. There was no way I was getting back on the High Queen after not having swung a leg over her back in three years. She's enjoying her retirement and see's no reason for that to change thank you very much. <br />
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My DH's horse, the tallest and youngest horse on the property at a whopping 8 years old this year was also out. Despite the security of the western saddle that fits only him, Cowboy has the attention span of a gnat and if I could work him 5 or 6 days a week, I'm sure he'd be safe for me to wander around on. But my schedule isn't that flexible and Cowboy and I share a history. I still have the scars on my right hand from where he bit me one year in an attempt to snatch a peppermint from my hand. I may pull my big girl panties on and start teaching him dressage next year (FYI I've said this almost every year for the last three years) and actually compete him, but we'll see. <br />
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So what has been going on since I haven't been swinging up in to the tack? Well I now have an impressive array of lunging equipment. I've fully restocked all my grooming supplies and bought lots of equestrian items that I either can't fit in to right now (a lovely lavender FITS shirt, size small, thank you Tack of the Day) and some new pieces of tack that again I can't use for at least another five months(I'm planning on trying to get back in to the saddle in late November or early December), ie the cob sized, Havana brown Micklem Competition bridle I just snagged for a deal on eBay. <br />
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Other than that there is just a lot of fantastical plans and staring at the background photo I have on one of my monitors at work (I have two, duh IT's need two!). The photo is of the one and only time I cantered the High Queen up over a XC fence at a schooling. It was a small wooden coop and we came at from downhill to uphill approach. DH just happened to catch us mid-leap as I let out a Wahoo! My mouth is wide open in awe and delight, the High Queen is just easily catching massive air over the fence, one ear flicked back to listen to my ecstatic glee. <br />
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I kept hoping to meet up with my coach to get training rides done on Fox but it just never happened. DH took the truck apart one week to install his new birthday gift(a truly awesome touch screen stereo system with not one but TWO back-up cameras! One camera is specifically pointed a the ball hitch in the middle of the bed to make it sooo much easier to hitch up the trailer!) and he wasn't quite able to get it back together in time and of course even if he had it wouldn't have mattered because Fox came up a little off in front. Too much running around with the mare I think. The time before that the weather just wouldn't cooperate and before that my coach's schedule was just too packed and we couldn't find a good day. So I've kind of given up getting Fox ridden and decided to just let him wallow in his vacation until late this fall.<br />
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The High Queen got her first ever three legged lame abscess. Sooo totally fun! And it was on a rear hoof so it was extra fun trying to convince her to let me soak it. But I now own a staggering amount of hoof packing, soaking solutions and some new ice wraps to help with the inevitable leg swelling. <br />
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Even as the day for baby's impending arrival draws nearer I still find myself more apt to be cruising tack catalog's than baby gear catalogs. Although since finding out that I'm having a girl. YES! I've also been cruising pony breeder websites. Not that I'll be getting a pony any time soon, in five or six years probably. But it's fun to look and distract myself from the upcoming sleep deprivation. Already the baby has been waking me up in the middle of the night with her random and sometimes startling movements. I think the baby is practicing her pony clubber kicks. At 3am mommy is not amused by this and wishes the baby would go back to sleep. <br />
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I've decided to keep this blog as mostly eventing as I get back to it late this fall. But for a hilarious take on my eventing journey while juggling horse life, work life and baby life head over to Eventer +Baby Makes Three. <a href="https://eventermomblog.wordpress.com/2016/07/26/first-blog-post/">https://eventermomblog.wordpress.com/2016/07/26/first-blog-post/</a><br />
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Until next time, keep it between the flags everyone!<br />
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A few weeks ago I made the five hour trek to Chesterfield, South Carolina to immerse myself in the Heart of the Carolina's Long Format Three Day Event. I had contacted the fabulous sponsor coordinators prior to and these extremely generous people paid for my lodging so that I could indeed stay for the entire event. Next year (Oh YES! I am going back) I'm going to haul my horse trailer down so that I can stay on the property.<br />
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Thursday night I joined a host of other volunteers, and the coordinator plus many of the officials at a dinner on the property that was set-up so we could all get to know one another. I also got to talk to the sponsor coordinator to find out what jobs he needed me to do. So with my marching orders and a full stomach I headed off to bed so I could get up early the next day and start the fun.<br />
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Friday dawned bright, semi-clear and fairly warm. After catching breakfast with the other volunteers, again provided by the gracious coordinators and owners of So8ths, I caught a ride over to the dressage arena which was a short hack through the woods, or a slightly longer drive on the road. This day I would be the official bit checker. I know, very prestigious. It's not a job most people like, something I found out later. I on the other hand loved it because it meant I got to touch all the horses! It also meant that while I wasn't bit checking I had a ring side view of every dressage test. Win win!<br />
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Saturday was Endurance day! Woo hoo! Every eventer's favorite day, filled with long gallops over gorgeous country and flying over xc fences! Again after hitting breakfast with the volunteers (the coordinators take such excellent care of their volunteers) I climbed on to the hay wagon and was treated to a leisurely ride to my spot on the XC course where I would be jump judging that day.<br />
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I would be judging for every division and both sections. Because if running a long format three day wasn't crazy enough So8ths also runs a horse trial simultaneously! In the Training 3D section I had six fences I was judging. Two were combinations and counted as one obstacle and the others were single fences. I had a brush combination, a ditch and rail combination and a trakehner. I also judged a brush and ditch for the Novice section and for the BN section a brush and a coop. The day was long but how can you go wrong with the scope of your job involving watching horses gallop up and fly over fences? That is never a bad day. Now if I could only get paid for it! <br />
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There were only a few mishaps on course. A couple of T3D riders got lost on course but eventually found their way to the right path. One rider's horse hit the trakehener with it's hind leg hard enough that the rider chose to retire and there was one significant rider fall. Her horse slammed on the breaks at the very last minute and the rider ended up in the ditch. The horse, bless his heart, took off for home. The rider was unharmed and quickly got up and was checked over by medical. No injuries to either party. <br />
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Saturday night is also the evening of the annual Kentucky Derby Party, which falls on the same weekend as HOTC. We played racing games, watched the race and ate some excellent food from private catering. I headed to bed early though others hung out and danced until very late. <br />
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Sunday dawned clear and warm for stadium day. I watched the morning jogs, I know most people would find watching a horse trot by very boring but I loved every minute of it. Later I went off to my job for the day. This day I was wrangling warm-up. Basically checking in the riders and making sure everyone was where they were supposed to be at the time they were supposed to be there. Again I had a front row view of very tricky stadium course. I cheered on each rider and spent the day leisurely watching the completion of the best sport in the world. <br />
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I had absolutely the best time, met so many great people, including the owners of the most beautiful privately owned event venue I've ever seen, ate tons of great food, made new friends and got to watch my favorite thing, horses loving their job and doing it well! <br />
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Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-66234781859699399752016-04-28T10:14:00.002-07:002016-04-28T10:14:24.106-07:00If You Can't Ride, Give Back<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Since my pregnant status isn't going to change until October and my ponies aren't trustworthy enough to haul my ever expanding butt around I've decided to do some volunteering. My goal is to someday do the BN Long Format Three Day Event at So8ths. Ever since I found out about it and watched the videos I've been entranced with actually doing it.<br />
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So what's the next best thing to competing at the So8ths Long Format? Volunteering! You get to see it all and learn all the tips and tricks without a whole lot of pressure. So next Tuesday I'll be making the long trek from my farm in southeastern VA to Chesterfield, SC!<br />
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If you don't know what this is or what its all about, go to the website and check it out! <br />
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Eventing at Midnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14080188818697273140noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3807044018361048887.post-63861915534694623252016-04-21T06:58:00.000-07:002016-04-21T06:58:17.578-07:00Because It Isn't Enough to Cry<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Some deaths aren’t a shock. The pet or person has been sick
for a long time and it’s the natural progression that they pass on. There is
relief that they aren’t in pain anymore, are no longer suffering.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Then there are the deaths that hit you like a
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Almost five years ago my husband and I drove to Philadelphia
to pick up our new puppy. English Bull Terrier’s as a whole are independent,
stubborn and are basically 60 to 70lb tanks in a small package. They are also
loving, loyal and goofy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My own EBT,
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feet, just in case that piece of vegetable or meat might need cleaning up from
the floor. When we brought home a chair-and-a-half from my sister’s house he
quickly claimed it as his throne. Although we would occasionally share it, him
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">He would grunt and whine and make the most improbable noises
for a dog. Agate would also beg for ice cubes anytime anyone was in the
freezer. He chewed up the edges of my muck boots, he chewed my husband’s socks,
he stole rolls of toilet paper out of the bathroom and parked himself squarely
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">This past week I had to let him go.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I say I even though he was really both my
husband and I’s dog because when it comes to the animals the hard choices are
always mine.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My husband was a marine and
saw so many awful things and never shed a tear.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>But the animals make him soft and mushy on the inside.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Not that I had any of an easier time giving
the vet permission when it was clear my dog wasn’t going to recover.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But he was more mine than my husband’s and it
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I mostly held it together at work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I told no one of his passing, they wouldn’t
understand and I thought if I had one person say to me “it was just a dog.” I
might be physically violent.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He was not
just a dog. I raised him, I loved him and in the end I couldn’t protect him
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Yesterday I went to the vet’s office so I could bring Agate
home one last time. My husband and I buried him in the backyard in a sunny
patch of grass. He liked to lie in the sun.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Later I’ll plant flowers there. For now there is only the heartache
every time I walk in to the house and he isn’t there. The memories that cloud
my eyes with tears and the guilt that I couldn’t save him. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Keep it between the flags everyone. </span></div>
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